Feeling Overwhelmed? Try This...
09/21/2018 01:45:38 PM
The challenge each of us face now is:
How to channel all the inspiration and energy built up over the High Holy Days into our daily practical lives throughout the coming year?
I recently read an amazing study about how to...Read more...
The Perfect Storm
09/14/2018 12:40:11 PM
The phrase ‘The Perfect Storm’ comes from the non-fiction book with this title, authored by Sabastian Junger in 1997. Three years later the book was turned into a film with the same name.
The phrase connotes a confluence of bad circumstances that combine to form a monumental disaster. In the case...Read more...
Never Fear Sin
08/17/2018 12:44:33 PM
Before the Jewish army would go out to war, a priest was appointed to help lead the army - to accompany, guide and inspire the soldiers.
One of his prep speeches went like this: "Hear, O Israel … Let your hearts not be faint … for the Lord, your...Read more...
Do You See Or Hear?
08/03/2018 01:14:14 PM
We encounter the world around us through all our different senses.
We taste, touch, smell, listen and see.
But we connect with the most important things in our lives primarily through our ears and eyes. Think about your relationships, your education, your job, your worldview, and you’ll notice how what you see and what you hear are...Read more...
The Happiness Mix
07/20/2018 11:16:09 AM
Emotions are complicated.
When we pause to think about what and how we're feeling, we can get confused. Am I feeling like this or like that? Or a little bit of both?
Just try answering Facebook's question "How...Read more...
A New World Order
07/13/2018 10:56:24 AM
This week it was yet again confirmed that which we know to be true deep in our gut.
That when the entire world cooperates together in unison to achieve a goal, no matter how audacious it may be, it will always succeed.
After a long and scary 18-day ordeal, 12 boys and their teacher were rescued...Read more...
Whose Genes Will You Blame?
07/06/2018 12:21:00 PM
Why are we so suspicious of others?
Often, when we see someone do something good, we suspect that their intentions are flawed. Do they really mean it? Who are they trying to impress? What are they trying to prove? What do they expect in return? What are they covering up? What is their real agenda?
Similarly, when someone does something which...Read more...
Be A Little Moses!
06/15/2018 12:12:56 PM
How should a Jewish leader react when their generation has been overcome by sin and waywardness?
Historically there have been three different kinds of approaches:
Noach paradigm: When G-d planned to destroy all of humanity due to their sinful behavior, he instructed Noach to build an ark to save the good people. Noach worked tirelessly to build the ark and to ensure that he and his family will be saved. But Noach didn’t...Read more...
When G-d Took A Risk
06/08/2018 11:00:27 AM
Some episodes are true turning points in history.
This week's Torah portion records one of them. The Jews were preparing to soon enter Israel. They would be led into Israel by Moses, and begin to build and settle their land under his guidance. One can just imagine how glorious that might have...Read more...
The Female Qualitative Edge
03/09/2018 01:30:45 PM
For decades the media and other influential voices of society have been campaigning against women. They’ve done so very cleverly, dressing up their campaign by claiming they represent women, and wish to ‘empower’ them and make them be ‘just like everyone else’.
But the root of their campaign...Read more...
Let's Create Life!
02/22/2018 11:08:32 AM
We are still in a state of pain and disbelief about the horrific school shootings in Parkland FL last week, which claimed the lives of 17 people, and injured many others.
Fingers of blame are being pointed in many directions – the NRA, the school, the FBI, our politicians, and many other systems.
No system...Read more...
WHAT'S THE REAL-FEEL?
01/05/2018 09:36:37 AM
Here’s a typical conversation over the past few days:
A: “Its’ freezing!”
B: “I know. They say that it’s 10 degrees.”
A: “Yeah, but the real-feel is actually -5 degrees!”
Humans have been attempting to make weather predictions for thousands of years. And ever since the invent of science and technology, we have been able to forecast with much greater precision.
In the 1990’s,...Read more...
A LESSON IN SENSITIVITY
12/28/2017 09:33:32 AM
My grandfather Mr. Herschel Klein was a very special man, with true 'old-world' values.
When he retired, he volunteered to teach a Talmud class at my high-school. Each year, days before Pesach, he would take his class on an excursion to the main...Read more...
MINORITY RULE
12/22/2017 09:32:14 AM
In a court of law we apply the principle of ‘majority rule’. But sometimes, we ought to simply ignore the majority. Here’s why:
But first: we were all alarmed (though sadly not surprised) at the absurd resolution that was voted upon at the United Nations General Assembly this week. In a vote of 128 to 9, the majority of nations voted for a resolution that demanded that the United States rescind on its recent declaration...Read more...
Keep Calm With A Hammer & Nail
12/01/2017 09:28:58 AM
There is a not-so-well-known custom about how to conclude the ‘shiva’, the week of mourning after the passing of a loved one.
The mourner bangs a nail into the place where they sat shiva and grieved their loss.
The source for this custom is obscure. Here is one of the possible...Read more...
MY SHORTEST HIGH HOLYDAY SERMON
10/18/2017 09:22:21 AM
Of the many sermons that I shared over the High Holy Day season, perhaps the most important one was delivered this past Saturday night, at the end of Shabbat Bereishit, which concluded the festival season.
Following is a transcript:
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Anger Management
08/25/2017 12:12:41 PM
When life throws you a lemon, and you are tempted to throw a fit, there are 2 paths to dealing with it: 1) Emunah-Faith, 2) Emotional Control.
The 'Faith Path' means that you realize that everything is orchestrated by G-d, so it's best to simply raise your hands and ride the...Read more...
How A Racist Is Born
08/18/2017 11:22:34 AM
“See, I have placed before you the blessed path and the cursed path. The blessed path – when you will obey the commands of the Lord. The cursed path – if you won’t obey the commands of the Lord, and you will worship other gods.”
These are the famous opening verses of this week’s parshat Re’eh. Though...Read more...
Israel's Sword & Bow
07/07/2017 12:37:57 PM
"Balak the son of Zippor [king of Moav] saw all that Israel had done to the Amorites.”
This is the opening verse of this week’s Torah portion. Simply understood, the verse is introducing the ensuing story why Balak wished to curse the Jewish people. Just recently the Jews had successfully...Read more...
Life's Like A Mountain, Or Two
06/30/2017 12:56:52 PM
There are a lot of Mountains featured in Biblical history.
Moses received the Torah from G-d upon Mount Sinai.
Moses passed away upon Mount Nevo.
Aharon, his brother, passed away upon Hor Hahar, Mount Mountain.
Mount Mountain is a strange name....Read more...
Why You Should Never Fear G-d
06/14/2017 01:02:00 PM
A few years ago, at a bar-mitzvah celebration, I blessed the bar-mitzvah boy in the traditional way, "may you grow to be a pious, G-d fearing and learned Jew."
One of the guests that day was a person who rarely ever attended a Synagogue, and who was very detached from any engagement in Jewish life.
During the party after the services, he came over to talk to me and asked with complete sincerity, "Rabbi, why do...Read more...
The 5 Step Program
05/26/2017 12:12:12 PM
An exciting week is approaching us next week. On Monday, Americans will observe Memorial Day, and on Wednesday & Thursday Jews will celebrate Shavuot.
Memorial Day is an annual day dedicated to memorializing the fallen soldiers of our country’s armed forces. It is a day to give...Read more...
The Six Day War Doctrine
05/24/2017 09:43:23 AM
It is most remarkable that in less than thirty years, the Jewish people suffered one of the most horrendous acts of destruction, as well as one of the most miraculous acts of salvation.
In the 1940’s it was the Holocaust. In 1967 it was Israel’s victory of the Six Day War.
It is unfortunate that in...Read more...
Just This One Time...
05/19/2017 01:42:15 PM
I began an experiment in human behavior a few weeks ago, and I’m proud to say that its failure was a great success! As a disclaimer, I only observed one participant, but I’m quite confident that the data and results are conclusive.
Many of us are challenged with keeping our spaces tidy. From our car, to...Read more...
How To Make A Relationship Work
05/12/2017 01:45:21 PM
Why do some friendships last longer, or remain more peaceful, than some marriages?
There are some obvious answers to this question. Marriages are more consuming and they require greater commitment. But there is a much more important answer, one which doesn’t reduce marriage to the...Read more...
Where Were You When Whatsapp Crashed?
05/05/2017 12:14:12 PM
This week 1.2 billion people entered a state of panic. The popular Whatsapp digital message service experienced problems and went offline for a few hours. I’m hoping that most people have since recovered!
Which got me thinking…
As with everybody else, I too was inconvenienced...Read more...
A Time For Healing
04/28/2017 11:14:36 AM
The other day a friend shared with me that he attended a class on the topic of Sefirat Haomer. The teacher was discussing the correlation between the 49 days of counting and the 49 Sefirot, which is described extensively in Kabbalistic teachings. But he walked away feeling that he hadn’t gained...Read more...
1 People Or 1 Heart?
02/17/2017 12:13:06 PM
What attracts you to another person? What type of connection do you aim to create in a relationship?
One way to connect with another is by looking for common ground - similar interests, hobbies, lifestyle and values.
Another way to connect with another is by discovering a point within them that makes you and...Read more...
The Gift Of Prayer
02/03/2017 12:36:04 PM
It has been said that the greatest gift you can give your child is a sibling. To which I like to add, that an even greater gift is to give them a few siblings!
Yet there is another great gift you can give your child, and it is the gift of Prayer.
Yesterday I attended a Siddur party at the Scheck Hillel...Read more...